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Tuesday, April 21, 2015

Thank You, My Love {#TuesdayTen}

Apparently, April is Couple Appreciation Month and April 16 was Husband Appreciation Day, so it seems like the perfect time to take a moment and reflect on all the things I appreciate about my hubby, David. 

When I first met David, I had no intentions of dating him. My friends gave him my number without me knowing. Luckily for me, he called and I reluctantly said yes to a lunch date. As they say, the rest is history. 

I was young, only 21, when we got married - at least that's young by today's standards. Four moves, two dogs, three kids, and almost 17 years later, here we are. Nowadays, we are so busy that, like many couples, it can be hard for us to find time to just be together as a couple. However, there is always time to let each other know how much we love them and how much we appreciate who they are. In fact, I appreciate him so much, I thought of 12 things for this list!

  1. He's smart. I don't know when he finds time, but he reads a lot of current events articles. He is my go-to for what's happening in the world. He knows all about finances, stocks, politics, and world "issues."  
  2. He's worldly. Now, he travels a lot for work, but mostly within the USA. However, before we met, he traveled a lot with friends and has seen much of the world. Slowly but surely, he is taking me to many places as well.
  3. He's handy. I didn't grow up with a Mr. Fixit in the house because my dad was not very handy.  My parents called a repairman for even small fixes. I never thought much about it then. David, however, is what you would call "mechanically inclined." He just knows how stuff works. He can fix a leaky faucet, install a new ceiling fan, assemble a complicated toy without glancing at the instructions, and rescue my computer from an imminent crash. 
  4. He made me a mom. Of course, I did the "heavy lifting" so to speak, but I didn't make babies by myself and he has always been with me through every step of this parenting journey. 
  5. He's a great dad. Admittedly, he has high expectations and can be kind of hard on our girls sometimes. But, he can also make them smile and laugh like nobody else. Often, they will open up and tell him things that they haven't told me. They know they can turn to him for help, for snuggles, and for safety. 
  6. He's an extrovert, which is probably good since he is a salesman! He can talk to anybody anywhere. I cannot tell you how many times he has struck up a conversation with some random person in a checkout line or at a restaurant. As they say, he's never met a stranger.
  7. He is a hard worker. Early on in our marriage, I used to call him a workaholic and get angry about the amount of time he would spend working. After several years and many discussions, though, I have come to realize that, at the heart of his "workaholism" is a strong desire to provide the best for his family. I truly believe he would work 24/7 if he had to in order to gives all of "his girls" the very best he possibly can. He is not afraid of a challenge and he is really, really god at his job.  
  8. He is exceptionally dedicated to his family.  That includes the girls and me as well as his parents, siblings, and in-laws. Every family has at least a little bit of crazy and our families are no different, but David would drop everything for any of them without a second thought. 
  9. He's confident in who he is He's not one to back down from a "fight." He does it tactfully and respectfully, but if he has an opinion (and he has LOTS of opinions), he is not scared to talk about it.  He doesn't worry too much about what others think of him. He sticks to his beliefs even if he is in the minority. He doesn't succumb to trends or fads. He is who he is - no pretending, no facades. 
  10. He thinks I'm beautiful, even when I don't (which is a lot lately). 
  11. He's a really good back scratcher. And, I mean that literally. When I am stressed or tense, he gives a great back rub. 
  12. Last but not least, I have to appreciate the fact that he puts up with me. I know I can be moody and slow to change. I can be a little too serious and scheduled. He has taught me to loosen up a little and to laugh at life sometimes. 
David and I are a lot alike when it comes to our beliefs and values, but our personalities are pretty different. We have always found a way to meet in the middle, though, and we have a very strong marriage. Of course, I tell him I love him, but I'm sure I don't tell him enough how much I truly appreciate him. He's a great husband, a great dad, and a great guy. I'm extremely lucky and grateful that I get to call him mine.  
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Tuesday, August 5, 2014

My Best Friend {#TuesdayTen Linkup}

For this week's Tuesday Ten, we are honoring our best friends because August 3rd was National Friendship Day.  Friendship Day was created by Hallmark way back in 1919 as a way to encourage people to - you guessed it! - send cards to their friends.  However, by the 40's, the holiday had faded.  Then, in 1998, Winnie the Pooh was named the world's Ambassador of Friendship by the United Nations!  In 2011, the UN officially deemed July 30 as National Friendship Day, although most countries celebrate on the first Sunday of August.

I am, by nature, an introvert and have never been a person who has tons of friends.  Most of the time, I'm just fine with that.  Now, I can honestly say that some of my best friends are other bloggers.  Many I have met in person once thanks to BlogU, but there are still some that I have never met face to face and some who live in other parts of the world entirely.

I know this might sound very cliche, but my hubby is truly my very best friend in the world.  He knows everything about me and we have been through thick and thin together.  There is nobody with whom I have shared more laughter, tears, or joy.  With three daughters to raise and a household to maintain, I am certainly very dependent on him functionally.  However, I also depend on him emotionally.  His is my sounding board, my comfort, and my companion.  I would be so lost without him. 

Since today's theme is "Ten Things I Love About My Best Friend" and since tomorrow is actually David's birthday, I am honoring both by sharing with you . . . . . . . . 
  1. He is very supportive.
  2. He makes me smile and laugh.
  3. He calms me down when I overreact or stress out.
  4. He is smart and teaches me new things all the time.
  5. He has strengths in areas where I have weakness (and vice versa) which means we offset each other very well.
  6. He thinks I'm beautiful even when I don't.
  7. He eats anything I cook without (much) complaining.
  8. He appreciates all I do and tells me often.
  9. He is a great to snuggle with.
  10. He is a great dad!

Happy Birthday, my love!!  Thanks for being such a great husband and dad.  You are truly my best friend and I hope to spend many more birthdays with you!!!

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